Mommy Dearest Birthday Part 1

Today is my mom's birthday, and I know a lot of people -because I know not everyone is lucky to have an awesome mom- would say that their mom is the best mom in the world, but I'm grateful, trully grateful for the mother the Lord send me. She's kind, she loves to share, it doesn't matter if she has enough, because for her, to share is the best.
And if one day I can be at least a 1% like her, I would be blessed, because she's my role model, she's the person I admire the most, and always always always I'm going to give thanks to have her in my life.
Probably I'm going to share a few pics later on, since I bought her a tiny cake so she could share it with her co-workers and friends from our work.
God Bless her beautiful soul
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Next Tuesday is mommy dearest birthday, since we have to work all freaking day, we celebrated yesterday, we had an amazing time for sure

Rating Books

I've been reading quite a lot the last couple of years, so of course, I started writing reviews on the blog. Reading is an important part of my life, and I want to keep sharing whatever I have to say about the books I read. That's why I decided to start with sharing how I rate books. I try to read different genres, but that only make things a little bit difficult, I mean how could you rate a book 5 stars when is a children's book and gave the same rating to a thriller? To simplify this,  I created my own rating since the Goodreads was too kind for my taste and the Amazon a little bit harsh using the one star as I Hate it, which caused me conflicts. You see, when I hate a book, I simply stop reading it, Why would I waste my time with a book that I'm totally hating it when I could be reading something so much better? Life is too short to waste it in ugly books.
So in case you are curious about how I rate my books, here's a little explanation of it. I use of course the five star rating, which is the easy way for me, but every single star has a meaning, and is based in an element that I really liked about the book.

The Meaning behind the Stars:
I don’t like it // this is a book that for some reason I kept reading, even when at the end I totally regret it. Probably something caught my attention about the story, or is a sequel, but still, I wouldn’t recommend it
¶¶ Not my cup of tea // A book that maybe is not that bad, maybe has one or two elements that could have worked in its favor, but at the end the book didn’t work for me.
¶¶¶ It was ok // a book that wasn’t bad, the idea was probably good, but that’s it, it didn’t cause an effect on me.
¶¶¶¶ I really liked it // a book that caught me since the moment I started to read it, a book that I would recommend to my friends and probably I wouldn’t mind to re-read.
¶¶¶¶¶ Loved it // a book that caused a great effect on me, that made me feel a big attachment to the characters, that I’m going to keep talking about it for years to come by.

The Elements that I take in consideration:

1.      The Story or Storytelling // it could be a story that I never read before, a subject that is new to me, and of course it caught my attention. Or it could be the same story that we’ve been reading over and over again, but the author imprint on it his or her personal style, making the story unique.
2.      The Setting and Descriptions // a foreign place, a forest a particular city, something that make interesting the place where the events are developing. And here the description is really important because they help you to create a mental picture of the place, but when is too much, I mean when there’s an excess in details, it could be boring.
3.      Characters // and here I’m not talking only of the main characters, but all of them in general. Sometimes you totally dislike the main characters, but them there’s one simple character, a secondary character who made the book more enjoyable, so is not always the main character that would make me appreciate a book.
4.      The Twist on the Story // sometimes the stories can be quite predictable, and become boring, but there are moments when the Author, oh blessed Author, gave the story such a twist that make it so good, if not perfect. Probably you guessed right who the bad guy was, but thanks to the twist, it wasn’t as you were thinking.
5.      The Emotional part // how a book made me feel, and here I’m talking about positive feelings, not the kind that make you want to reap the book in pieces, but the ones that made you love the book, that made you feel empathy, that made you cry, and that left you wishing for more.


I feel like my last entry needed an explanation. For the last couple of years my main focus was the blog, being a blogger, editing pictures, trying not to mix a lot of my personal life with the blog content, or at least do it in certain level, following the rules of the blog community, you know, keep you mouth shut when things go wrong, always show the bright side, or at least that's what lots of bloggers reccomend for have a succesful blog.
I followed the rules, I tried with all my heart to do it, but I keep noticing that something was missing, yes, I shared some pictures here and there, yes, I shared my point of view about the books I read, but for some reason, I kept feeling that Dulce wasn't there, at least not as it used to be.
My heart wasn't there anymore. And I keep wondering, what do I want to accomplish with this blog?, I don't feel the community, I certainly don't feel like ME.
The last week I've been thinking over and over again about livejournal, who easy was to write in here, to vent if I needed it, and don't feel judged or as a moaning myrtle for doing it. I was happy in this community, using this platform, so why on earth I wanted a blog in which I didn't feel like myself anymore? no matter how many times I arranged or re-arranged the layout, the links, or even changed the template, I wasn't me anymore, so fuck that, I decided to return to the only place that I feel like home, so here I am, back to journaling because this is me, this is mine and this is what I really want to share.
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loooong time no see

I still can't believe it's been so freaking long since I logged in on this site, I must say that I missed the privacy and the community, I don't know why I was so inmerse in blogging and forgot about journaling, but definetely intending to make a huge change on it.
I'm back for good

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Constantly promise to myself to update lj but every single time i check it on the pc, i can't figure it out how to use the new platform, so disturbing, anyway, i'm fine, keep working in the same place, same boring life but thinking on new resolutions, a few changes here and there.
I entered to the nanowrimo with the second part of Sacred Wizards, and i already finished since i hand wrote the first draft, of course i edited a little bit here and there.
I'm doing a little peoject with my bedroom floor, we'll see how this turn out and i cut my hair once more

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